Is leading a successful life an Art?

Is leading a successful life an Art?

Yes leading a successful life is an art to be learnt. It is not inborn or innate. The reason is the definition for success is different for different individuals. There are common keys that will help you live a successful life.  These are the keys that I’ve learned over the years from studying successful people.  These lessons separate those who succeed from those who fail. We’re all capable of greatness; however, we’re all not willing to reach for it.

Discover why you were createdEverything created solves a problem, my eyes see, my ears hear, my nose smells.  Doctors solve medical problems, lawyers solve legal problems, counsellors solve emotional problems.  You were created to solve a problem, and your success in life is dependent on your ability to find that problem and solve it.You see, you will only be rewarded in this life for the problems that you solve for other people, so it’s imperative that you find the problem you solve best, and solve it.

Commit to be a SuccessSuccess begins with a decision!  Success does not start when you buy your first Rolls Royce, or your first BMW.Success is the progressive realization of a worthy goal!  Success is being all that “you” are capable of being.  Success is being your best, giving your best, and living your best.Anyone can be a success, because anyone can decide to be successful, anyone can decide to give their best.

Have Faith in Your PossibilitiesIf you don’t believe you’re going to succeed, then …you’re probably right.  Faith in your possibilities is what gives you the strength to do the impossible.If you don’t believe you will succeed, why should anyone else?  Why would anyone support you, if you’re convinced that your ship is sinking?  Work on your faith; learn to believe in the possibilities that lie ahead of you.There’s nothing you can’t do!

Keep Your Life in BalanceWhat good is it to be wealthy and have no one to share your wealth with?  And it’s certainly not ideal to have people you love, who you can’t afford to give anything to.  Love finds its greatest expression in giving.Work to keep your life in balance, you can have your cake and eat it too, but you have to plan for it.  Create a daily plan that allows you to be healthy, happy, wealthy, wise, and successful.  Never become so consumed with one area of your life that you let the others slip; labor to live a balanced life. 

5 Traits Of Healthy Relationships

Our personal relationships are an essential part of life. We are naturally wired to connect and collaborate with others.

In order for our relationships to remain healthy, here are five considerations:

Communication is consistent. 
Without clear communication relationships wither. 

Respect isn't optional; it's necessary. 
Unhealthy relationships are often a result of losing respect for one another.

Healthy boundaries are clear. 
Creating healthy personal boundaries facilitates self-reliance and helps to develop nurturing, loving, and mature relationships.

Growing together is as important as growing individually. 
We are all in a perpetual state of growth and expansion. When we grow individually, we expand our thoughts and beliefs by learning from ourselves. When we grow in relationships, we learn from each other. 

Love conquers all. 
Real love conquers all doubt, fear, shortcomings, feelings of inadequacy, and negativity. To be truly loved by someone is to be recognized and "seen" for all of the things you are -- complete and whole -- with all of your strengths and weaknesses; ups and downs; fabulousness and foibles. When we learn to love, accept, support, and appreciate ourselves, our relationships will always benefit.