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जननी जन्मभूमिश्च स्वर्गादपि गरीयसी

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Asha the Hope celebrated Deepavali with the unseen and unsung heroes of our Nation. I am talking about those who manufacture our National Flag. The only authorised unit in India to manufacture and supply national flags – the Karnataka Khadi and Gramodyoga Samyukta Sangh (Federation) (KKGSSF) – is located in  Bengeri village in Dharwad district There are women from various part of Hubli and Dharwad.They work on daily wages. They used to get 30 rupees per day and now they get 75 to 150 rupees. No age bar. When you ask an old woman why is she still working...she said such beautiful words. These are her lines..." Not every body has oppurtunity to give back the Nation something before we leave. I can't  go to border and guard my country but I can be the nation's pride in their hands." A pregnant lady is working with so much of respect to the nation to have her child support every single growth the nation aspires. There are women and few men staff wo...

The story of Shiva shakthi

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  The story of Shiva the puru sha and Shakthi the prakruthi who are the masculine and Feminine system in the nature , who are the symbol of solar and Lunar energy. Lord Brahma’s wish-born son, a prajapati (Lord of creatures), was entrusted with the duty to populate the Universe. He with his wife, Prastuti, had many daughters who were married off to gods and sages. Sati, his youngest daughter, was his favourite. Sati was the reincarnation of Ardhashakti, or the better half of Lord Shiva which he had sacrificed to maintain the balance in the Universe and was thus, destined to marry Lord Shiva. But Daksha detested him and his hermetic lifestyle. Sati grew up to be the most beautiful maiden in the entire Universe, and there were innumerable suitors who wanted her hand in marriage. Sati, determined to fulfill her destiny, went to the Himalayas to meditate and appease Lord Shiva. Pleased with her devotion, he agreed to marry her at once. All the gods attended their wedding. Daksha did no...

Do you have problem in in telling " No"

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Saying " no"empathetically doesn't mean you are aggressive obnoxious selfish or controlling. It means you know 'no' how to protect yourself. These 6 basic steps will haun your ability to turn people down. As soon as you begin to apply them ,you will begin to feel justified saying 'no' 1. Get your priorities straight 2. Pay attention to have your parcel out "me" time 3.Recognise when and how  often you say yes.....? 4.Stop trying to do it all 5.Accept your limits 6.Give control to others to minimise your responsibilities. Your go to 'no' responses Harnessing the word,  "no" empowers you when dotting request. Do not glide your no with a lie or pad it with with excuses. lies and excuses are  counter productive because in all likelihood you will feel guilty about your fabrications. And guilt is precisely what you are trying to avoid. Consider the list below" your...

A BALANCE SHEET FOR THE INDIA -TODAY

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Winston Churchill once said " To say that India is a nation, is to say that Equator is one " For people like him , who projected the deliberately misguided hubris that BRITISH CREATED INDIA   and for their continued presence, india would not have survive, the completion of decades of the Republic is a fitting riposte. Our young Republic hs not only survived but proved long ago that its survival is beyond doubt. We may be a young Republic but we are an Ancient culture.When nationhood is underpinned by a strong and verifiable civilisation unity, the result is usually invincible. Rakhigarahi - The less known truth. Rakhigarhi hit the headlines when the DNA extracted from a woman who lived in the village around 4,500 years ago yielded clues to the ancestry of ancient Indians. Being a hub of ancient history, though, has come at a cost to this Indus Valley Civilisation site. At Rakhigarhi, one of the largest sites of the Indus Valley Civilisation (IVC), history i...

How to Stop Worrying?

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Are you plagued by constant worries and anxious thoughts? These tips can help calm your worried mind and ease anxiety. Results of worrying is too much! 1. Negative thinking,  2. Always expecting the worst can take a toll on emotional and physical health.  3.It can sap your emotional strength. 4.It can leave you feeling restless and jumpy. 5. It can cause insomnia, headaches, stomach problems, and muscle tension. 6. It can make it difficult to concentrate at work. 7. Impulsive behavior  Why is it so hard to stop worrying? Constant worrying can take a heavy toll. It can keep you up at night and make you tense and edgy during the day. And even though you hate feeling like a nervous wreck, it can still be so difficult to stop. Reason we can't stop worrying is because of associated BELIEFS! Negative beliefs about worry.  You may believe that your constant worrying is harmful, that it’s going to drive you crazy or affect y...

Is leading a successful life an Art?

Is leading a successful life an Art? Yes leading a successful life is an art to be learnt. It is not inborn or innate. The reason is the definition for success is different for different individuals. There are common keys that will help you live a successful life.  These are the keys that I’ve learned over the years from studying successful people.  These lessons separate those who succeed from those who fail. We’re all capable of greatness; however, we’re all not willing to reach for it . Discover why you were created Everything created solves a problem, my eyes see, my ears hear, my nose smells.  Doctors solve medical problems, lawyers solve legal problems, counsellors solve emotional problems.  You were created to solve a problem, and your success in life is dependent on your ability to find that problem and solve it. You see, you will only be rewarded in this life for the problems that you solve for other people, so it’s imperative that you find the proble...

5 Traits Of Healthy Relationships

Our personal relationships are an essential part of life. We are naturally wired to connect and collaborate with others. In order for our relationships to remain healthy, here are five considerations: Communication is consistent.   Without clear communication  relationships wither.  Respect isn't optional; it's necessary.   Unhealthy relationships are often a result of losing respect for one another. Healthy boundaries are clear.   Creating healthy personal boundaries facilitates self-reliance and helps to develop nurturing, loving, and mature relationships. Growing together is as important as growing individually.   We are all in a perpetual state of growth and expansion. When we grow individually, we expand our thoughts and beliefs by learning from ourselves. When we grow in relationships, we learn from each other.  Love conquers all.   Real love conquers all doubt, fear, shortcomings, feelings of inadequacy, and negativity. To...